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William Avery Group Two 1 Rheumond Bush Julie Lawson Michael Tussey Dr. Randall Tan KC_BITH 106 25 September 2007 The Past: A Fright or Friend There are many different ways that people can view the past. There are those who view that past as a hurtle that can never be jumped; a wall that forever blocks the path toward the present and future. Many believe that the past is something that can not be overcome or forgotten and that it haunts forever. This is a bleak and dismal out look on life and growth that often is connected with fate; the idea that man can never escape what is to happen and then once it has happened one can not erase it from the memory, it will live on. Then there are those who believe that the past to be just another life obstacle to overcome; the past is something that can be forgotten and move away from. This is the more optimistic outlook of the two views and suggests that man can escape from the horrors that have been and will come again. Many tend to believe in the latter outlook compared to the first because of such optimism and because many hope that they can overcome their trials and not forget them but learn from them. One such as Ralph Waldo Emerson says to, “be not a slave of your own past” (Quotationary). There is legitimacy to both views of the past; however, there are also imperfections. The truth is that the past is apart of man forever; it never detaches from the mind, body, and soul. It lives on just as man lives on, interwoven into the tapestry of life. However, there is the possibility to overcome the past and move toward the present and future. The only way to move forward is with the help of God and only with His help is man able to grow from experience and prosper. “For what is the present,” asks Walt Whitman, “after all but growth from the past” (Quotationary). Since the fact has been distinguished that one can overcome the past and move on toward the present and future the question arises as to how. How can man overcome his past and grow from his experiences without forgetting it, “for those who can not remember the past are condemned to repeat it” (Quotationary). So how can overcome the past and learn from it without forgetting the lesson. There are several measures that must be taken to ensure that the past has been conquered but not forgotten. The first measure is a realization that, “time is a necessary ingredient of growth,” (Cloud). Growth takes time and with time comes patience. “Just as turning a boat around in water takes time, so does turning our soul around. It involves trials, risks, and failures…and generally speaking, the worse the issue, the longer the time required to resolve,” (Cloud). Once it is understood that overcoming the past is going to take time it is easier to start the process and to slowly start facing the pain of the past. The second measure that must be taken is extensive prayer. Prayer itself is defined as communion with God, in other words, prayer is sharing thoughts and emotions with the Creator in an intimate way. To conquer the past, one must have constant communion with God and a constant call on His infinite assistance, love and care. The last measure that must be taken is to find a place of acceptance and forgiveness. Upon looking back on the past, one must come to a place of understanding that he can not change the past nor can he fully understand it. There may have been things in his life that he might not have understood why or how they happen but at the same point in his growth process, one must realize that he can not change what has happened. After accepting, one must also forgive. One must forgive the past and those in it. This can be for any number of situations; a bad relationship, abuse, murder, or other mistakes one has made or any injustices done to him. Only after finding this place of acceptance and forgiveness can one truly begin to grow and escape the pain of the past.